My DF and I have been talking about having children and where we're going to live after our wedding, etc. He has been even more ready for things than I have been, but recently after a discussion with his parents, he's wanting to change everything.
It would make them happy if we lived where they are, it would make them happy if we didn't have kids for a while, etc...Only a month ago he didn't care what they wanted and only worried about what we wanted and what was best for us. I'm confused as to what changed and he says he just doesn't want to make anyone upset with him.
How can I talk to him about this and convince him that it isn't up to anyone else?
Answer by Mme.Langley at 11:16 PM on Nov. 6, 2010
Answer by JLS2388 at 11:22 PM on Nov. 6, 2010
Answer by amessageofhope at 12:05 AM on Nov. 7, 2010
Answer by Ross2010 at 12:49 AM on Nov. 7, 2010