My sister was is a mentally abusive marriage for 13 years. I love her dearly and was there for her the last 4 years of that marriage. Everyday she called me crying. I have a family of my own. I worked nights alone and she took advantage of that. (she called me @ 2:30 am and wouldn't let me off the phone.
I now do not have a job. She cheated on him on night and I was the one in the middle. ( because I was the one she called)
He never LET her work. ( part of the mental abuse part). I told her she could stay here as long as she had a job and was trying. She was here about a month. Then she decided to stay with drug dealers!!!!
I swear she always needs to be the victom! I love her and she is the only family I have other than my kid and my man.
She wll think I am the bad guy If I come out and tell her what I feel. I don't want to loose my sister. Not to self destruction! How can I help her? sorry this is long
Answer by bamachild88 at 1:23 AM on Nov. 7, 2010
Answer by bucky77 at 1:46 AM on Nov. 7, 2010
your sister sounds like a 'carbon copy' of my sister! She was in an abusive rel. with her husb. for 17 years,I was always stuck in the middle too.I did everything I could possibly do but she still to this day makes terrible decisions. I finally had to tell myself to back off.It was causing problems in my family by me always trying to fix her f-ups. I love her dearly and it's hard to sit back and watch her screw up her life but I have one of my own.I'll always love my sister dearly but shes gonna have to learn repercussions for her actions.when it start interferring with your life then thats when you have to take a step back, it's called "tough love"! Good Luck!
Answer by anichols1 at 6:38 AM on Nov. 7, 2010
Answer by aliceinalgonac at 10:53 AM on Nov. 7, 2010
Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 3:35 PM on Nov. 7, 2010