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Would it bother you or hurt you if your husband said..........

that you are no longer the same person that he married? but that he still loves you!


Asked by Darla47 at 5:49 PM on Nov. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • as long as he means it in a good way, I see no problem. I am a completely different person now than he married. The difference between 20 and 33 is a lot, but he has changed also. That is what life is, everyone grows and changes.

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 5:55 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • I would inquire as to the nature of the change, maybe he means for the best.

    Answer by older at 5:51 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • No I would ask what he meant?

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:52 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • No, he's said it and he's right... We've both grown and changed since we got married... That doesn't mean we love each other less!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 5:52 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • no but id make sure it was a good thing which it sounds like it since he says he still loves you

    Answer by meagan678 at 5:54 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • sounds like maybe he's being honest-
    but I would ask him what he means

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 5:57 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • Shit thats nice compared to what my husband has said to me

    Answer by myownhappiness at 5:59 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • yeah that sounds like he has something else to say

    Answer by AprylnAtticus at 6:00 PM on Nov. 7, 2010

  • I'm a lot different from before we got married and I got pregnant. I stopped drinking and smoking pot obviously and don't plan on smoking pot again and keeping drinking down to an occasional thing. I went from being a reckless 21 year old party girl to a mommy as soon as I found out I was pregnant with no regrets. My husband does miss the partying, but we gave it up for something much better.
    Ask him what has changed in you and if the changes were for better or for worse.

    Answer by slowyourrole at 6:03 PM on Nov. 7, 2010