I don't live near you either, but if you have a church, or are comfortable going to a church, check into their divorce recovery groups. They aren't usually geared exclusively to infidelity, but you will find that many of the members have been through it. It can be a good place to get help. Also, check with any women's organization's in your area, often they can give you referrals to local support groups.
at 6:44 PM on Nov. 7, 2010