or a condition like downs etc....did you tell people? Even if it was just a possibility?
We have been honest with friends and family that so far there have been concerns over our son's small size, the small size of his limbs in proportion to his body and 1 of his kidneys is also a little small. We've just been open and frank as it doesn't matter to us, these problems may correct themselves before birth ... but they may not. And we dont care.
that being said...some friends have made comments like "do you know if baby is normal yet?" or "hope pregnancy is going well despite his problems" and little things like that. Its really starting to irriate me how much pity some of my friends seem to have over it. Their faces when they talk about the baby, or whatever.
I wish i kept it to myself in a way. I may even be overreacting but its really upsetting me.
Anyone else been in a similar boat? How did you manage it?
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