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Why does this keep happening? How can I make it stop?

I have my husband password on facebook. Lately he keeps receiving message from ladies on facebook with no top on or have a bikini on. The subject they send is "hello" nothing else. I talked to my husband about it and he said I don't know them. I send back a message to the ladies and told them "LEAVE ME ALONE" What else can I do? And why all of sudden he receiving these messages. He has been on facebook for about 6 mths to a year.

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Asked by bmwlover at 4:02 PM on Nov. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (20)
  • Delete Facebook. Problem solved.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 4:03 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Spam. I get that my own self. I also get foreigners.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 4:04 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Well is his page public or private? try customizing his privacy settings where everything is private unless they are on his list and that they can't send him messages unless they are on his list.

    Answer by 405mom at 4:05 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Hmmm, he must have hit the "like" button somewhere! LOL, Try blocking them. Check out his "like" pages.

    Answer by mamaada at 4:05 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Bummer, Trust him and do not accuse. It is likely that he is innocent.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 4:07 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • What are his LIKES pages Where do I find them at? Why should I delete his account? We found many old friends that way and we keep in touch with long distance family members. I don't think its fair to delete his facebook account. My husband does have his account on private.....

    Comment by bmwlover (original poster) at 4:08 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • It is some kind of phishing scam or something similiar. I was getting friend invites from regular looking people but their message was always the same; "please add me." I always would just report the profile as a fake and eventually it did stop. It is no different than the junk mail we receive in our email.

    Answer by shanlaree at 4:08 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • I have been getting those also. Stuff like that keeps me fromletting my 12 year old get a FB account.

    Answer by arenad at 4:11 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • It could very well just be spam. That happened a few years ago with Myspace and Facebook. Just delete them. You can also turn off the ability to be messaged in your Privacy settings.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:11 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  •  Are they sending messages, or posting on his wall? You can get a lot of crazy people posting  on the wall. You can change it, so only his "Friends," or "Friends of Friends," can post.    It's probably nothing.  He knows you have his password. He doesn't sound like he's too concerned about you checking his account.  If he changes his password, then be concerned.


    Answer by earlgrey at 4:13 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

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