little bitch tells your kids "the reason mommy and daddy are not together anymore is because mommy didn't want to take care of you" but you tell your kids the truth that his GF is the reason as well as he was always the one up all night playing video games or talking to his bitch online when she should have been in bed for school and when mommy would go to work he would be sleeping instead of caring for them not to mention he would jump to do things for her but moan and groan about doing family stuff that YOU were always the one to plan like taking them to the zoo and he has the nerve to get mad that you told your kids the truth?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:32 PM on Nov. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Well it seems like you are better off without him. It seems to be a situation where you need to get full custody. But still in my opinion it is better for the kids to know how much you love them. Maybe focus less on the fact that dad is so lost he cant tell his head from his tail,and more on your love for them and helping them through this. Heal with your children... try to focus less on the hurt you all feel and more on the love and future you have with them. There is better for you out there. Love your kids. Let karma, God, or whatever you believe in take its course with the ex. Just do whatever you can to lessen your babies pain. They are what's most important anyway. Praying for you.
Answer by Tzutchka at 7:33 PM on Nov. 8, 2010
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Answer by imuney at 4:44 PM on Nov. 8, 2010
Wow..how awful to be in this situation. I understand you are hurt (you have every right to be) but I suggest you take a step back and see the long term damage that will come if the strife between you and your ex continues. Yes he made some horrible choices. But to bad mouth him to your children only lowers you. When he talks ugly about you, let your children know that you are working hard to provide a life for your family, but do not lower yourself to bad mouthing. It has to be hard enough for your children to understand what is happening, without having to make adult judgements as to which parent is in the right. There is alot of hurt feelings (and rightfully so) but that does not need to bleed over into your kids. Get custody, limited visitation for the dad, and move on to bigger and better. And try to remember that the gf is/was 15 when this started. she is a child and he took advantage. Praying 4 u! good luck
Answer by Tzutchka at 6:17 PM on Nov. 8, 2010
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Answer by gdiamante at 4:49 PM on Nov. 8, 2010