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Out of curiousity would you be more upset if your SO/DH cheated on you with a man or a woman??

I know this is random and our men arent gay but just curious about which would upset you more.

 
LiLJeni

Asked by LiLJeni at 7:20 PM on Nov. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • I would be more upset if he cheated with a man. I would feel like not only had he cheated, our life together had been a lie.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 7:42 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • I'd be more upset by a woman.
    Obviously if he cheats with a man he's gay and there isn't anything I could have done about it.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 7:21 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Id just be pist off either way!

    sugahmamma

    Answer by sugahmamma at 7:21 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • Maybe its because of where I live (bible belt), but two women in the community had their husbands outed in the act. I think they suffered way more with humiliation that other women who's husbands had cheated with women.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • a woman , the man not as hard to take , and not sure why
    letstalk747

    Answer by letstalk747 at 7:21 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • It always hurts more when it's another woman...
    Blabbermouth

    Answer by Blabbermouth at 7:22 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • both a cheat is a cheat you don't do it at all
    dutchcanadain

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 7:26 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • I agree, another woman. Because I know if he likes men, then there is nothing i could have done to compete with that.
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 7:33 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • First let me say that I would define cheating as him having sex with someone else and not telling me and trying to hide it because they have an emotional connection and the like. That's just my opinion on what cheating is, though. I would probably be more upset if he had sex with a man because I would be hurt that he hadn't told me that he was curious, or was bi.
    Mrs.BAT

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 7:34 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

  • It would not make a bit of difference to me, a cheat is still a cheat.
    older

    Answer by older at 7:40 PM on Nov. 8, 2010

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