Ok so I have a problem. My DH’s family is way too involved in our life. we see them way too much however I feel like part of that is my fault because in the beginning I thought that it was amazing...he was so lucky to have a family like that because I never did but, over time it became something where I kept wondering when we were going to feel more like a real family without his around....it’s hard to explain but I am so sick of it he says his family is really important to him, that his family is AS important to him as me and dd and I feel like that is bs! I want to be MORE important I want us to feel like a family but it doesn't and we have been married for 5 years. What do I do?
Well your job was to figure that out before you married him if you knew he was so close and married him despite it, you accepted that fact. If you thought it was awesome then you need to be understanding because really it's you who is changing not him. You can talk to him but you really should be gentle with it and let him make up his mind as to what he wants to do.
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