If you can afford a vacation together, just the two of you, it's a great way to remember the fun side of each other. DH and I went to Sint Maarten over the summer, and we travel very well together. It was really great. Even just a weekend getaway can make a big difference.
I also agree about doing things you normally wouldn't. Have either of you ever been sky diving? Do something you're afraid to do, and do it together. You'll keep each other calm and have a great shared experience that will bring you closer together.
Even a day hike together, maybe with the kids, is nice. You can talk with few distractions, and the scenery can give you something to talk about.
With winter coming, you guys can all take a snow day, and either spend the day in the yard, making snowmen, or drive to where there is snow and go sledding and such.
Good luck, mama! =)
at 11:05 PM on Nov. 8, 2010