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2 Bumps

would you rather your DH/SO

have a one night stand or have an intimate relationship with another woman that doesnt include sex, but does include dates and kissing that lasts several months?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:20 AM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • Both choices suck.

    Answer by DMac08 at 8:23 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • One night stand.. Atleast that way theres no emotional connection..

    Answer by xxMasonsMommaxx at 8:37 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Why do something you will eventually regret later on? It just isn't worth it to lose self-esteem for a one night stand and being freaky too.

    Answer by Sapphire51 at 8:50 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • either way I would be done. So neither.

    Answer by okmommy08 at 8:51 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • i agree with previous post... I would be done with him either way, so neither/either

    Answer by 1st_time_mom23 at 9:15 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • I could not deal with my DH having sex with anyone. It would destroy our relationship. If he was close to another women I would not be happy but I would have more respect for him that he didn't go all the way. At least he had some self control. If he was in love with the other woman I would really just want to know if he wanted to be with her. If he did I would let him go.

    Answer by bjane01 at 9:18 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • i agree why would u stay with someone who had a one night stand with another female and had sex with them but reality is every guy out there has had sex with another woman before u

    Answer by diana398 at 11:13 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No

    Answer by canta1980 at 11:33 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Neither. There is hurt associated with both choices.

    Answer by mamii2hayntori at 12:16 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Sex is a renewable resource. What I would find unforgivable would be lying to me, especially if everyone else knew but me!

    Answer by MamaAlice54 at 5:59 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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