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how do you know when or if your husband is cheating on you?


Asked by Anonymous at 9:31 AM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • If he is always making some stupid, and random excuse not to be at home or not taking an interesting in your marriage...he may be cheating or it could just be that his heart and his mind are just not into being a husband.

    Answer by MrsJStearns at 9:37 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • deleting computer history
    browsing in private on computer
    clicks off page when you walk into computer room
    gets on computer first thing in am, or late at night, when you are in the shower or on errands (needs private time on computer)
    takes cals away from you, takes phone with him going to the bathroom, deletes calls that came in, gets text calls and gives stupid answer when you ask who it was
    phone rings and you can tell he is not answering all questions from other person, gets off phone quickly, acts strange

    mine yawns when he is telling a lie
    avoids eye contact
    changes subject
    when you ask question, he needs to go do something - like bathroom, then comes back with answer (he had to think about it)
    answers question with too many details
    you ask question, he asks it back at you without answering
    gets defensive if you ask question
    makes a fight about nothing, he is making you the bad guy be

    Answer by fiatpax at 10:01 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • if he hides his phone or makes up excuses like "i cant have friends now?" when you have no idea who they are. Keeping ex's around is not cheating but it is a red flag also.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 9:41 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • takes a new interest in his looks
    asks you to do things in bedroom that are not regular
    does not want sex with you
    wants more than regular
    wants sex only after showering when he gets home
    or showers as soon as he comes in house, when he usually does not
    does not answer phone, maybe calls back in a few minutes- not regular for him
    buys himself new underwear when he does not usually
    wears cologne when he does not usually
    talks like he is Gods gift to women
    acts or talks like he could DO BETTER
    like you better be more or he could go elsewhere
    makes coments bad about you, your looks or whatever, when he usually does not
    has email addreaa you do not know about
    goes out with friends does not tell you who, or says one person, then changes to another
    working late or on weekend when he usually does not

    trust your instincts, and best show of future behavoir is past behavoir
    once a cheater

    Answer by fiatpax at 10:06 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • If your asking the question then you already know.

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 10:08 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • trust your instincts, they're usually right...

    Answer by Dark-N-Prego at 10:11 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • When they start to hang out more outside the house rather then being with you and the family in your own home.
    oh and maybe accidentally call you a new pet name out of the blue. GL

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 10:52 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • watch his behaviors and habits.

    Answer by canta1980 at 11:29 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • When you start asking the one you are asking.

    Answer by mom42107 at 11:56 AM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • You dont always know, some people are really good at hiding those kind of things.

    Answer by LiLJeni at 12:38 PM on Nov. 9, 2010