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If a woman kisses another person whom she thinks is a woman, but it is really a man.. Would that make her a lesbian?? adult content

Vice versa also.. A man kisses a person whom he thinks is a man.. but it is really a woman.. is he gay?

 
SuperrMommyy

Asked by SuperrMommyy at 12:07 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • no, to be a lesbian/gay you have to be attracted to the same sex in the first place. That was just an Oops Moment.
    Zoeyis

    Answer by Zoeyis at 12:08 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • i would think it wouldn't matter what the sex really was..if the intent of the kisser was to kiss the same sex (as they find the same sex sexually appealing), then ...they just might be gay. trickery of the kissed wouldn't have much bearing on the kisser's sexuality, or intent. IMO.
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 12:10 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Yes because their perception is that they are kissing another person of the same gender regardless if they have had a sex change or falsely advertise their sexual orientation
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 12:09 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No, people do things out of curiosity, too, and curiosity doesn't make you gay.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 12:10 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No. just confused.
    jewjewbee

    Answer by jewjewbee at 12:21 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Of course not!
    older

    Answer by older at 12:39 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Does kissing one sex or the other really determine sexual preference? IDK. I don't really see a need to define this situation. It's just a kiss.

    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 12:09 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • If she meant to kiss a woman that was a man that she thought was a woman? I am guessing she would have meant to kiss a woman because she likes women.

    Same with a man who kisses a man thinking it is a man but was a woman, probably would have tried to kiss them because they are a man because they like men?

    I agree with dull scissors
    littlestar85257

    Answer by littlestar85257 at 12:24 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No. How did a kiss become sex or sexual preference? As usually not enough background info. Was it a dare, drunk moment, a peck and not tongue, culturally acceptable practice, and what not???

    Besides I don't see how a kiss, even if the intent was to a kiss the same sex, makes one attracted to the same sex. People kiss for many reasons. This whole situation is too broad.
    isabellalecour

    Answer by isabellalecour at 12:31 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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