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If a woman kisses another person whom she thinks is a woman, but it is really a man.. Would that make her a lesbian?? adult content

Vice versa also.. A man kisses a person whom he thinks is a man.. but it is really a woman.. is he gay?


Asked by SuperrMommyy at 12:07 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • no, to be a lesbian/gay you have to be attracted to the same sex in the first place. That was just an Oops Moment.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 12:08 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • i would think it wouldn't matter what the sex really was..if the intent of the kisser was to kiss the same sex (as they find the same sex sexually appealing), then ...they just might be gay. trickery of the kissed wouldn't have much bearing on the kisser's sexuality, or intent. IMO.

    Answer by dullscissors at 12:10 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Yes because their perception is that they are kissing another person of the same gender regardless if they have had a sex change or falsely advertise their sexual orientation

    Answer by Jademom07 at 12:09 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No, people do things out of curiosity, too, and curiosity doesn't make you gay.

    Answer by SWasson at 12:10 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No. just confused.

    Answer by jewjewbee at 12:21 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Of course not!

    Answer by older at 12:39 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Does kissing one sex or the other really determine sexual preference? IDK. I don't really see a need to define this situation. It's just a kiss.


    Answer by QuinnMae at 12:09 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • If she meant to kiss a woman that was a man that she thought was a woman? I am guessing she would have meant to kiss a woman because she likes women.

    Same with a man who kisses a man thinking it is a man but was a woman, probably would have tried to kiss them because they are a man because they like men?

    I agree with dull scissors

    Answer by littlestar85257 at 12:24 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • No. How did a kiss become sex or sexual preference? As usually not enough background info. Was it a dare, drunk moment, a peck and not tongue, culturally acceptable practice, and what not???

    Besides I don't see how a kiss, even if the intent was to a kiss the same sex, makes one attracted to the same sex. People kiss for many reasons. This whole situation is too broad.

    Answer by isabellalecour at 12:31 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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