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im afrade to have sex with my husband because i wont see my ob for my first appointment till dec and ill be 10 weeks when i do.

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Asked by AliciaLamoreux at 1:20 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • u will be just fine unless ur having bleeding

    Answer by leAnn21 at 1:21 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • As long as it is not the rough kind you shouldn't have a problem.

    Answer by older at 1:21 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Well then don't have sex. You can always give a hand job if he wants that feeling.

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 1:21 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • ok.. but why are you scared to have sex with your husband??

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:22 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Healthy sex is perfectly find when you're pregnant. In fact, the "happy endorphins" you get from it are good for you! Don't be afraid.

    Answer by Adelicious at 1:26 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • im afrade bacause i havent gotten an okay from a doctor and i dont know if my baby is doing good or not since i havent been seen yet

    Comment by AliciaLamoreux (original poster) at 1:42 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • If youre worried, dont do it. Give him some head or a hand job to tide him over until then LOL
    Explain your fears to him, I'm sure even though he is horny, he will understand.

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 1:51 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Unless you're having bleeding or cramping, normal sex should be fine. If you want reassurance call your OB's office and ask to speak to a nurse. If you're still not comfortable try some of the alternatives noted above.

    Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 2:35 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • honey!!!! have fun u will be fine. unless it hurts or u bleed then go at it!! lol have fun.

    Answer by britt_howard at 3:01 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • what do i do if i start to bleed?

    Comment by AliciaLamoreux (original poster) at 3:39 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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