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i want to rekindel our sex life any ideals??

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turtle420

Asked by turtle420 at 3:56 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Mt suggestion is to start with what kindled it in the first place. Lots of things get in the way anymore. Try to remember how things were when they were fresh and new he should pick up on that.
    bellsandheels

    Answer by bellsandheels at 4:04 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • role playing, kinky things such as tying one another up. Maybe try doing something very romantic.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:08 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • My personal experience & view is this.

    The BEST way to rekindle a sex life is....... Open honest sexual communication. Sharing and exploring each others needs, wants, desire, and fantasies together. Experimenting together. Exploring the depths of each others sexuality together.

    It begins by talking, sharing, exploring and exeperimenting with one another.

    All the : toys, porn, role playing..etc.. in the world are wonderful and great fun. But if the couple does not have that open honest communication, and aren't fully sharing/aware of each others deepest needs, wants, desires and fantasies.. Those things are just a band aid and the novelty can wear off and the couple can be right back where they started.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:20 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • stripper pole
    imuney

    Answer by imuney at 5:02 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • spend time together.....plan nights that you both know you will be having sex......instead of worrying about making it exciting, try going for warm and loving....hold hand afterward, watch t.v., etc....make it comfortable......trying to "fake" the honeymoon phase just doesn't work, in my opinion. It is better to enjoy the ebb and flow of life and enjoy the phase you are in now...
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 5:58 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Sexy undies, fake it a little, act like he is the best guy on earth. Sometimes you just need to convince your self. Talk to him a little, show interest in what he says. Do little sweet things for him.
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 6:47 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Text your husband a naughty pic of yourself one day & say "waiting for you tonight" or something...it will make him feel like you thought of him all day long! Also, tell him that once a month you want a romantic night with candles...the whole shebang! Having expectations will help! Good luck!
    CayShek

    Answer by CayShek at 7:08 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • imagination is the best teacher
    canta1980

    Answer by canta1980 at 11:00 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • sexy nighty
    Vero0724

    Answer by Vero0724 at 8:29 AM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • I wanna do the same thing!!! Maybe we can both get some good ideas!! :0)
    newmom28

    Answer by newmom28 at 8:35 AM on Nov. 10, 2010

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