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how do i get him to grow up?

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dalordblessedme

Asked by dalordblessedme at 8:59 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i wish there was a way but sadly there isnt for some men, if he is treating you bad try telling him how you feel, i have to try all the time and my husband still dont see it
    angelbaby1323

    Answer by angelbaby1323 at 9:01 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • who?
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 9:01 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • ? Help raise him? OR You can not make him grow up if you are talking about a mister!
    jem102675

    Answer by jem102675 at 9:01 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Take a look at his point of view, sometimes what we are doing is causing their reaction, and we just don't see that yet. Ask him what you did to get this reaction from him. Find out what it is that is causing him to act that way. If that doesn't work, sometimes, you have to make the tough decision of letting go.
    SherryMalcom

    Answer by SherryMalcom at 9:14 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • Men mature a lot slower than women, it takes time and patience to deal with it. Some men never mature but it's up to you to deal with it or leave him. Most men do but it's not a guarantee lol
    Dark-N-Prego

    Answer by Dark-N-Prego at 9:26 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • men don't grow up they just get older and still act like kid
    dutchcanadain

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 9:54 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • you can't train a grown men
    canta1980

    Answer by canta1980 at 10:49 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • he is as grown as he is gonna get...sorry momma
    4_28_bbboy

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 11:32 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • You cant....there all kids at heart. always will be
    HaRlEiGhSmOmMa

    Answer by HaRlEiGhSmOmMa at 2:26 AM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Try miracle grow. Seriously if you think you can make any one do anything your a little crazy. Men do mature and grow in their own time.
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 10:31 AM on Nov. 10, 2010

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