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how come men only care about themselves and they think that they can make us a back up plan? adult content

After 6 years together and two kids later i found out that my fiance was addicted to perks so i kicked him out. well a month later he married someone else. How can he have no remorse and just up and leave us to marry someone just because she doesnt mind him doing drugs. now he broke up with her and cant wrap his head around the reason why i wont get back with him

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Asked by BBmama2u at 9:12 PM on Nov. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You and the kids are better off without him. Drug addicts cause a lot of problems, and your family doesn't need that. It's really messed up that he up and married someone else. The drugs are obviously affecting his mind if he even thought there was a possibility that you'd take him back. Luckily, not all men are like that :) You'll find someone who knows how to treat you hun & who isn't living that lifestyle!

    Answer by Dark-N-Prego at 9:15 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • First off, that's not all men. This is one man. And I am slightly offended by the comment drug addicts cause a lot of problems. It's generalizing. I'm sure it's annoying to you right now, but in time you will feel better. Everything takes time. Move on, take care of your kids, and yourself and the right man will come along!

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 9:23 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

  • i agree with musicmom80 there not all men are like that --i know you hurt so dont let that one man that hurt you think all men are like him-- there are good men out there and i sure youll find one -- your ex fiance maybe was on drugs when he married that other girl--my bro-- is on heavy drugs and wow he treats hes girlfriend like dog shit really bad so babygirl you dont deserve a man thats going to treat you like trash-- that man needs help and if he dosnt wnat to get help he going to continue the way he is --but your kids dont need to be around that so try to get them away from that problem or else it going to confuse them--good luck

    Answer by Genesis29 at 9:42 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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