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do you have sex

only about 3 times month not as much as use to,busy lives and he work 3rd shift

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raisingmen

Asked by raisingmen at 1:01 PM on Nov. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Right now.. with me being 8 months pregnant and sick all the dang time.. not often.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:03 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • when i was preg i wanted it all time
    raisingmen

    Comment by raisingmen (original poster) at 1:05 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Me too.. with my first two. This one, I am sick ALL the time!
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:08 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • and probaly exhausted from chasing other 2. I was sicker and weaker with my last one wasn't sure if it was age or the two kids
    raisingmen

    Comment by raisingmen (original poster) at 1:09 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • My depo messed with my sex drive and we are working on it. But as it stands now I am ashamed to say we are down to 2-3 times a month when it used to be 4-5 times a week or 2-3 times a day.
    Jwick

    Answer by Jwick at 1:10 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Eveyday, sometimes twice.
    LoriannMc

    Answer by LoriannMc at 1:11 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • after i had my 3rd LO we went almost a month (after i was approved) without sex. dh made a comment and i really hadnt realized it had been that long. so i told him why i hadnt done nething about it. kids wear u down, if he wanted some nookie, he needs to get me in bed before 11. guess what, we've been in bed by 11 for almost 2 weeks.
    Phippsandrea

    Answer by Phippsandrea at 1:14 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • We average 5x a week.

    We made an agreement many years ago, that we go no more than 2 days without..Unless of course some unforseen circumstance pops up and prevents us from being able to. Life being what it is, that does happen at times..lol.. However, I noticed that after we made this agreement, the "excuses/reasons" for not having sex became less. Things like being: too tired, too busy.etc. seemed to no longer be an issue or pop up as much as they did before we made the agreement.

    We are both in our late 40's, (48 & 49) and we have been married for 25 years.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 1:22 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Jwick just explained my situation verbatim. That DAMN depo!! ugg I feel soo awful for my hubby, but I am trying hard to fix it!
    sweetstkissez22

    Answer by sweetstkissez22 at 1:36 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • I wouldn't compare with others....it depends on what you two are happy with.....many factors contribute to how often....
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 1:38 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

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