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my husband is having an affair with this 21 year old girl in the office and he is 50 years old

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lee852

Asked by lee852 at 1:57 PM on Nov. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (29)
  • Why is he still your husband?
    Shanna84

    Answer by Shanna84 at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • So what's your question? Is he a dirty old man? Yes! Should you leave his sorry ass? Yes!
    Anouck

    Answer by Anouck at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • {{HUGS}} so sorry
    raisingmen

    Answer by raisingmen at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Sorry.
    arenad

    Answer by arenad at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • What a stud... ewe! So sorry Honey..
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • and you know this how?

    if you have irrefutable proof, act on it, either legally or theraputic. If not, then I'd be very careful about making accusations yet.
    Zoeyis

    Answer by Zoeyis at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • he denies everything, he buys her ticket to travel, hotel accomodation, and so on, I think he bought a car for her, he is always fighting and arguing in the home, and cares less and less about me and my kids
    lee852

    Comment by lee852 (original poster) at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • What is your question?
    Is it:

    What should I do?
    Why is he doing this?
    What does he see in her?
    Does he love me any longer?
    How do I approach him about this?

    Ect.....................................................
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Can we say MID-LIFE CRISIS???? What ever happend to buying a sports car??? I am so sorry. I know it is easy to tell you to leave, but do what makes you happy. If you do decide to leave, be a cougar...lol Go find you a sexy boy toy. I have decided we really don't need mean to survive anyway, I say we should use them like they use us. lol Good Luck!!!!!
    Conley639

    Answer by Conley639 at 2:01 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Hire a private investigator to follow him around for as week.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 2:03 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

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