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my husband is having an affair with this 21 year old girl in the office and he is 50 years old

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Asked by lee852 at 1:57 PM on Nov. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Why is he still your husband?

    Answer by Shanna84 at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • So what's your question? Is he a dirty old man? Yes! Should you leave his sorry ass? Yes!

    Answer by Anouck at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • {{HUGS}} so sorry

    Answer by raisingmen at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Sorry.

    Answer by arenad at 1:58 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • What a stud... ewe! So sorry Honey..

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • and you know this how?

    if you have irrefutable proof, act on it, either legally or theraputic. If not, then I'd be very careful about making accusations yet.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • he denies everything, he buys her ticket to travel, hotel accomodation, and so on, I think he bought a car for her, he is always fighting and arguing in the home, and cares less and less about me and my kids

    Comment by lee852 (original poster) at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • What is your question?
    Is it:

    What should I do?
    Why is he doing this?
    What does he see in her?
    Does he love me any longer?
    How do I approach him about this?


    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Can we say MID-LIFE CRISIS???? What ever happend to buying a sports car??? I am so sorry. I know it is easy to tell you to leave, but do what makes you happy. If you do decide to leave, be a Go find you a sexy boy toy. I have decided we really don't need mean to survive anyway, I say we should use them like they use us. lol Good Luck!!!!!

    Answer by Conley639 at 2:01 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

  • Hire a private investigator to follow him around for as week.

    Answer by Scuba at 2:03 PM on Nov. 10, 2010

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