My ex refuses to give back the clothing I send my children in when they go to his house. We have 50/50 custody & parenting time. I try not to spend a lot on clothes to begin with, so I can't get much cheaper without putting them in rags. But, I don't have the money to replace what he takes. This has been a problem since we split up. I write down what the children wear whenever they go to his house, & cross it off when it comes back. He asked about an item I didn't return, so I asked for my month long list of items that haven't been returned (he tends to keep clothing until it doesn't fit them anymore), & he says he doesn't have it, and that I am just unorganized and don't know what I'm talking about. BTW-he's a controlling, manipulative jerk, hence the divorce. Uh, no dude! I am the one that writes it all down and keeps track of it. How do I get the stuff back? My kids are 7 & 4 & I try to keep them out of itAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:26 PM on Nov. 10, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by xxlilmomma09 at 4:29 PM on Nov. 10, 2010
Answer by Jademom07 at 4:30 PM on Nov. 10, 2010
This is what I would do. The kids would go to his house in what they where wearing. Nothing else. Sense you two have 50/50 custody. Let him buy cloths for them for his house. I would not allow the kids to bring anything with them, but the cloths on their back. That would be the oldest cloths they have. The one that they are about to grow out of. If he want to act like that I would to.
Stop sending things over ther if you know he will not return the stuff.
Answer by louise2 at 4:39 PM on Nov. 10, 2010
Answer by Claudiomom at 5:00 PM on Nov. 10, 2010
Answer by fiatpax at 5:51 PM on Nov. 10, 2010
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 9:30 AM on Nov. 11, 2010