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Is my ex feeling guilt or love?

An ex that I had an abortion with two years ago is always the first to say "hello" to me. Today he asked me if there is anything he can do for me. I know that there is no chance in the world that we will reconnect.

Why is my ex making effort to small talk communicate with me whenever he sees me? I don't feel that this is normal, since on his behalf that I may not be fully recovered. Is this guilt or love that he's feeling?


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Asked by Anonymous at 2:22 PM on Nov. 11, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (5)
  • Sounds more like guitl or the guy is just friendly.

    Answer by older at 2:23 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • *guilt*

    Answer by older at 2:23 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • Sounds like he's feeling some guilt. I wouldn't be able to say just from this description if it is love also, but sounds like there is definitely some guilt going on there, too.

    Answer by Kword at 2:26 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I agree I think he might feel guilty for the abortion. How did your relationship end was it agreed upon?

    Answer by preciouschild at 2:33 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • Agree...guilt.

    Answer by rio_burb at 4:02 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

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