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How do you calm yourself down when you find yourself getting overly frustrated with your children?

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Duckylicious

Asked by Duckylicious at 9:34 PM on Nov. 11, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • smoke a cigg
    yankeegirl87

    Answer by yankeegirl87 at 9:37 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I walk away. Take a breather then come back when I'm calm. If more people walked away their would be less abuse whether it be by mistake or uncontrollable.
    Jenaiko01

    Answer by Jenaiko01 at 9:37 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • Deep breathing works for me. Or if I know they are safe I will go outside for a minute or two for fresh air.
    mommy_bink

    Answer by mommy_bink at 9:40 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • just go through the motion and wait like for me right now my kids are driving me nuts but I am patiently waiting for 9:00 that is their bedtime and then I can relax all by myself hubby is working nights aahhh!!! come on 9:00 whoohoo! Don't soon they too will be in bed. GL
    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 9:40 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I put my son in his play pen, where I know he cant get hurt or get into anything. Then I just walk away and let him cry until Im calm enough to pick him up and try calming him down again.
    EmpathyEve

    Answer by EmpathyEve at 9:46 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I remember she won't always be little.
    Donna2468403

    Answer by Donna2468403 at 9:47 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I take a nice long jacuzzi bath with a cup of hot tea with honey in it!!!
    tdawn_21

    Answer by tdawn_21 at 10:00 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • it may sound crazy but i take a time out....i will literally go too my room shut the door and set my alarm for 10 mins.....if i need too cry i do so then i take a deep breath and try again.
    chris1975

    Answer by chris1975 at 10:05 PM on Nov. 11, 2010

  • I walk away to where I can be alone for 5 mins. Take a deep breath and return. Lol.
    Luisa621

    Answer by Luisa621 at 6:57 AM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • when it gets really bad, i will put them somewhere in a safe place in the house (strapped into high chair or in the crib) and i go into the bathroom put the lid down on the toilet and just breathe for 5 minutes. i also put mine to bed pretty early (oldest is in bed by 720pm) so i can have some me time in the evening, yes it means they get up a little earlier, but i love that time after they go to bed when i can sit and read or eat a snack without having to give half of it to someone
    tiffanyv123

    Answer by tiffanyv123 at 7:05 AM on Nov. 12, 2010

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