ok so i feel like im not accomplishing nothing in life or for myself im 21 years old and i have a 7 month baby girl im married almost 3 years i dropped out of high school and im living at my mother-in-law house wich i cant stand no job my husband has a shity job that only pays the bills and with a body that im not comfortable with-- i love my babygirl and husband with all my soul all my heart but im not happy with the life that i have-i know there is worse people than me but i feel awful unhappy--i know that i have to do something to change it because things dosnt happen by itself and i know that i also know that i have to work to get where i want to be-but idk how-- it feels like im stuck i cannot get a job anywhere my husband dosnt wnat to move out to another city because he thinks is to risky to go outthere without any backup money and a baby--everything seems really out of place and idk how to put everthng back in placeAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 AM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by JustMyOpinion22 at 7:59 AM on Nov. 12, 2010
I know how you feel. I'm 26 with 4 kids. My DH has a job that is okay. He gets more than enough to pay the bills but we can't do anything special. I don't have a job, no college education, and my dad is still living with us after my mom passed. I decided that enough was enough. I am going back to school. There are even degrees that you can complete online! You don't have to put your dd in daycare or have your MIL watch her. Also, if your husband made as little as you say he does, you may be able to get complete financial assistance. There is lots for you to do, you just have to do it!! I know you can, because I am working my way through school with 4 kids, one newborn. Good luck.
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