technically. he's been her only father figure since 6 months of age, her real dad left us while i was pregnant. then he visited her one time a few months ago and disappeared again, so she does know about her real dad but still acknowledges hubby as her dad. so on top of dealing with the sperm donor leaving her after telling her the truth (which i take blame for, shouldn't have let him see her at all) she's now dealing with the only daddy she's ever known brushing her off to the side.
when she was 2, hubby and i married and had our own child together. he pretty much ignored the baby and only paid attention to my oldest. it bothered me then, and now the tables are turned. but we've since had one more and i realize he's just not a "baby" person. anyway, he's all excited to see our 2nd when he gets home from work, and just "oh hey" with our 4 year old. and continued...
Answer by MizLee at 1:24 PM on Nov. 12, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 1:15 PM on Nov. 12, 2010
I don't know what you can do except talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't realize it's as bad as it is.
Answer by Shines3 at 1:12 PM on Nov. 12, 2010
Answer by angelmine2011 at 1:18 PM on Nov. 12, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 1:27 PM on Nov. 12, 2010
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