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how do you fix a broken heart

My little brother who is only a year younger than me is going through such a hard time. his girlfriend of two years just dumped him for someone else. he is so heart broken. He really messed with his mind making him think that there was nothing wrong at all and then out of nowhere she did this to him. he is just so heart broken. I want to help him but i have no idea what to do for him. I'm trying to stay out of it meaning i won't go and talk to ex even though i really want to right now. So what should i do for him. he really doesn't want to talk.

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:52 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Time heals all wounds.

    Answer by 405mom at 1:54 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Definitly dont go and talk to her. If she will just leave outta nowhere after two years maybe you dont want her in his life anyway. Just try and be there for him there isn't much you can do. Only time really makes things better. Try to get him to go out with his friends blow off some steam.

    Answer by bellsandheels at 1:57 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Let him be, this is one of many to come, just be there for him if he needs to vent and let him know this, he will be ok.

    Answer by older at 2:00 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Just be there for him and listen when he needs it. Time will help along with friends by his side. Keep him busy to take mind off things. I know life can be hard but we learn as life goes on. Just hand in there with him. Let him cry and yell but just do not let him let life pass him by. If this does not help then he might want to talk to someone.

    Answer by momindiana at 2:03 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • yeah just be there for him tell him to go out with his friend & that if he needs someone to talk to that your there to listen to him & that he will be ok

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 2:16 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Don't enable him. Let him deal with it in his own way just remind him he is not alone. He'll grow from this if you let him.

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:05 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

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