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in your another question posted

i am not chucky, but kind of older (45) and with a young child-3 yr old
what kind of chances do i have to find a great guy?
men my age usually what a younger woman
if they want a woman their own age, their own kids are older, out of the house or close, and would not want to date a woman with a young child

45 and with a three year old (with some delays)
any great unattached men who would want to date a woman with a three year old?
do i just give up until i am in a retirement home and fight to another women in there for the few men that are left (since most men will be dead by then)lol

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Asked by fiatpax at 7:02 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • First off 45 is not old!!! but then again this is coming from a 61 year old! Your chances are the same for anyone in your predicament, somewhere out there is your better half.

    Answer by older at 7:04 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Just get a nice dog...they are alot easier to train LOL!!

    Answer by Donna2468403 at 7:06 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • i say you still can find love out there you just have to be patient & think positive it will find you when the time is right good luck

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 7:09 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • lol donna :p i would try eharmony or :)

    Answer by pookipoo at 7:09 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • a dog is great
    but i would like a little action - someday again

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 7:10 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • There are more and more people finding love later in life. It's not so uncommon any more. Besides, little kids are lovable! But, no, I don't think you are too old to find love again.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 7:15 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • i know plenty of men who would date a woman in her 40s with a 3yr old...and most of them are late twenties to early thirties! depending on how serious of a relationship you want, you might just try to find a younger guy to date for fun for a while ;)

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 7:17 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • that shouldnt matter if he is gonna be with you and know you have a 3year old fine if he doesnt then oh well but i would not be introducing any of thm to your child until you know he is ok . put him on a 2 year plan or a year by that time the truth will com out but take your time

    Answer by gianna530 at 8:07 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • gianna
    i agree with taking time
    but how to find a man to begin with-lol

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 8:17 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • forget your age. if A man wants u,he wants u period.end of story. when a man is looking for a relationship AND TO SETTLE DOWN HE GOES BY PERSONALITY,INTELLECT AND THE CHEMISTRY U GUYS HAVE.

    Answer by maya123 at 12:11 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

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