Let me tell you a little secret...
Yuou CAN'T stop thinking about it. The whole "Just relax and you'll get pregnant" or "Stop trying and you'll get pregnant" is COMPLETE crap IMHO and quite frankly I do not believe that anyone who has ever had any trouble getting pregnant who say those things.
In my experience it's the lucky ladies that just have to look at their hubby and get pregnant that say these things.
As far as keeping it spicy....have sex on the kitchen counter, buy some new jaw dropping undies to wear to bed, jump in the shower with DH in the mornings, take his mind off that movie he's watching by straddling him on the couch, try new positions....HAVE FUN! Don't think of it as something you HAVE to do...think of it as something you WANT to do!
at 7:38 PM on Nov. 12, 2010