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Keeping it "Spicy"

How do you keep things fun when trying to conceive? We have been trying for 7 months and starting to get drained. I know to "stop thinking about it" "enjoy" ect.... But HOW do you stop thinking about it?? And fun things?


Asked by isabellem at 7:13 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Trying to Conceive

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  • You might want to abstain for the rest of the month, except once or twice. That way, when it's time to TTC every other day (days 9-15 or whatever) you and your husband will be more motivated and ready to get started!!

    Answer by carol2m2 at 4:22 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • An apron is sexy....nothing else;) When he comes home act like nothing is up while you're cooking in the kitchen in only an apron. ;)

    Confidence is very sexy to men also. Whatever you do, commit to it.

    Answer by thelowlander at 11:59 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Let me tell you a little secret...

    Yuou CAN'T stop thinking about it. The whole "Just relax and you'll get pregnant" or "Stop trying and you'll get pregnant" is COMPLETE crap IMHO and quite frankly I do not believe that anyone who has ever had any trouble getting pregnant who say those things.

    In my experience it's the lucky ladies that just have to look at their hubby and get pregnant that say these things.

    As far as keeping it spicy....have sex on the kitchen counter, buy some new jaw dropping undies to wear to bed, jump in the shower with DH in the mornings, take his mind off that movie he's watching by straddling him on the couch, try new positions....HAVE FUN! Don't think of it as something you HAVE to do...think of it as something you WANT to do!

    Answer by miasmommy21407 at 7:38 PM on Nov. 12, 2010