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Do you ever feel like this?

Somedays I can feel so much love for my dh and as soon as he snaps at me for somethng I did not do or whatever ruffled his feathers my loving feeling for him turns to almost hate well not hate but my feelings get hurt and I tell him why does he have to yell why can't he just talk with a calm voice he'll sy hes sorry but by then I can't help feel the way I do.
But I do get over it I don't stay mad for long or upset.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:08 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • I get exasperated with my husband. But as you say, I soon get over it.

    Answer by Bmat at 8:09 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Sounds like a normal relationship to me... :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:16 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • I too get very frustrated with my husband and the presence of him can make me sick at times but with a little bit of space I find that we both calm down and everything will be okay

    Answer by TiffanyPlew at 8:20 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • cole does the same, soon as he yells it like breaks my heart. i dont know why if it cause im pregnant or because i know how hard he works for us then whe i let him down i feel terrible. i dont no maybe i just need to buck up

    Answer by bethann9988 at 8:23 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Sounds very normal. No one is going to feel butterflies when someone snaps at them. :)

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 9:17 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • I don't know why, but I'm super sensitive when someone yells, not sensitive like I want to cry, more like I get angry. So if he yells and doesn't stop really quick, he gets the boot for a few hours until I can get over it.

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 9:19 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • it take time to be happy when someone hurts you.dont just to be happy really think about what he did or say.

    Answer by kornfan87 at 9:57 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • when u spend alot of time with someone they will get on your nerves; thats normal imo because you 2 have different brains and are not the same person .hell i get on my nerves sometimes lol.

    Answer by maya123 at 11:52 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Just do your best to not hold grudges. Be honest about what upsets you, but then let it go. So your relationship can grow;)

    Answer by thelowlander at 11:52 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

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