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Do you prefer spending Thanksgiving with your immediate family or with every relative you know?

I enjoy spending the holiday with just my DH and our children and their SO's. We quit attending the big family Thanksgiving about 6 years ago when it seemed like all we did was spend the holiday traveling. We now actually enjoy the holiday.


Asked by tony1638 at 9:48 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Holidays

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Answers (16)
  • Immediate family. Our kids and grandkids and their spouses. and my mom & stepdad when they come up.

    Answer by Honda309 at 10:10 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • The more the merrier. I only see all my family on major holidays so I enjoy it.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:49 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Both sides of our families are small... but I would honestly rather spend all Holidays home with just the 3 of us..
    but we spend Thanksgiving with his mother and sister at MIL's home and Christmas is always here at our home
    1 week before Christmas day... Christmas day is just the 3 of us...

    Answer by gmasboy at 9:53 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Just immediate family it's just more relaxing for me.


    Answer by musicmom08 at 11:36 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • there are certian people I enjoy spending it with.. some immediate, some not so immediate..

    but we have a small family..

    this year it'll be my parents, my brother, me, my daughter, my uncle, my grandfather, and my aunt for sure...

    that's all that's really available. We aren't on speaking terms with my mom's sister and her family (who use to come with her husband and kids), and my mom's other brother lives over seas with his family..
    my dad's family lives farther away and is larger, but we always had thanksgiving with mom's family, so they have their thing, we have ours. lol.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 12:19 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Our family is small and lives quite widely spaced so getting us all together is not doable.

    Thanksgiving is not my favorite holiday so Im cool just hanging with my husband and kids. Although this year we will be going and having it with my mom and grandmother and thats fine. Not too many and wont have to be there forever and a day either LOL.

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 11:09 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I like to go one place only. No fun dragging kids around. I prefer being with my mom and sisters. They are better cooks. lol

    Answer by MLM0503 at 9:50 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Everyone I know

    Answer by Heidikans at 9:51 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • neither. i dislike holidays. if i didn't live with my parents right now i wouldn't bother with any of it.

    Answer by mhaney03 at 10:13 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Well, my parents live far and they come up for Christmas, so we don't see them on Thanksgiving. We spend it with my sister and her family and my in-laws.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 10:18 PM on Nov. 12, 2010