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why cannt you hurt someone when they hurt ur feeling so they know how it hurt to feel pain.

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Asked by kornfan87 at 10:49 PM on Nov. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Two wrongs' dont make a right. You can most people just choose not to.

    Answer by arenad at 10:51 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • because it's best not to stoop to there level.

    Answer by Lynnsae at 10:54 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • yea i know but it hurt i just wish i could i know i would never do that cause it hurts but then how do they know how u feel really.

    Comment by kornfan87 (original poster) at 10:57 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • First off, if someone wrongs you, nobody cares when you retaliate because they are now focused on your behavior.
    Second, it's a little more effective to just tell the person what they did rather than do something back. It doesn't solve anything.

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:11 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • Revenge seldom works the way you want it too. You may simply come off looking like the crazy one and then the other person may feel vindicated.

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 11:22 PM on Nov. 12, 2010

  • because that never happens the only person that ends up getting hurt is once again YOU! The way to really get at someone is to do the exact opposite to them. If they hurt you first deal with the hurt and rejection within yourself. Sometimes you have to just walk away and not give that person power over your emotions. You should never be so devastated that you just can't move on. I recommend a life in Christ because He changed my way of dealing with hurt and rejection. I now let people know you can't hurt me because God's love is greater, and that's how i will love you.

    Answer by Tylee7 at 12:21 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • mama would always say two wrongs don't make it right.. so some of us have a heart and we choose to turn the cheek

    Answer by jojo153 at 3:35 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

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