I know a lot of you in here think your husbands are awesome and that's great but truth be told, they are the exception not the norm. My husband is a cheating, uncaring, unaffectionate ass and at this point, after 20 years of this man I'm thinking of becoming a nun or a lesbian neither of which is very appetizing. I'm 45 y/o and in great shape. I look like I'm 35. I don't drink, don't each much and have never relied on a man to maintain me. So, are their any real good sexy men out there that are worth my time or should I either stick to the shit I have or do the nun/lesbian gig?
Answer by Luisa621 at 6:36 PM on Nov. 13, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Nov. 13, 2010
I gotta be honest with you....Are you listening to how you talk about him? If you talk TO him the same way you talk ABOUT him, then no wonder he doesn't care. I know that sounds harsh, but think about it. Do you treat him like a pathetic, ugly loser? Do you tell him his hobbies are stupid, but then complain that he never wants to do anything with you? I would think after being married for 20 years you would have figured out that your union isn't all about you and your needs. I think you need to sit down and have a good long look in your spiritual mirror..then, sit your husband down. Ask him if he wants to make your marriage work. If so, then apologize for your share of the fighting and misunderstandings, and tell him that from this day on, you want things to be different for you two. Tell him you love him.. and then leave the rest up to him. I also recommend you read "The Love Dare". Great book, helped save my marriage.
Answer by brandyj at 1:00 AM on Nov. 13, 2010