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when you were a teenager did you think oral sex WAS NOT sex

when i was a teen we thought if we gave/received oral then we weren't having sex

 
wheresthewayout

Asked by wheresthewayout at 12:41 AM on Nov. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i heard that but i was taught otherwise
    meagan678

    Answer by meagan678 at 12:43 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I never did anything until I was 20. My hubby was my first and vice versa, But sex is sex to me.
    Anna-Chubaby

    Answer by Anna-Chubaby at 6:33 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I thought it was sex and I thought it was gross.
    DigiScrapperMom

    Answer by DigiScrapperMom at 12:44 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • No, oral sex always came after regular sex.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:44 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Nope never thought that.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 12:44 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I always thought oral sex was sex...hence the word sex...and I thought it was a foul thing to do. Seriously, I could not wap my mind around why anyone would give oral for the longest time.
    DomoniqueWS

    Answer by DomoniqueWS at 12:46 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • you mean giving oral after having sex?
    wheresthewayout

    Comment by wheresthewayout (original poster) at 1:02 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • No, I never thought it was not sex.
    Ashes0813

    Answer by Ashes0813 at 5:03 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  •         I was taught that oral sex doesn't make you loose your virginity but not by my parents! But giving and receivingcan give STDs. So be careful! I guess if you are ready for a sexual relationship old enough and mature enough or for some religious preferences (Married) then think of it as an intimate thing that just shouldn't be made such a must have in a relationship. It's special if that's what you and your partner enjoy.

    Be101

    Answer by Be101 at 10:01 AM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I thought it was oral sex. That's it. I don't really think of it as sex or not as sex. It's hard for me to explain exactly what I think of it.
    Mrs.BAT

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 6:33 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

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