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Have you ever had an affair? only answer if you have.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:11 PM on Nov. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Yes, I would not recommend it, it's a very selfish thing to do.


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:18 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Guess no one

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 12:18 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I have. I filed for divorce, and am now with the man I had an affair with. I had a lot of problems in my marriage, and sought comfort in the arms of someone else. I am not proud of what I did, and if I could do it over again I would have handled the situation differently. It's not the best situation to be in. I wouldn't recommend it.

    Answer by Stephalpha at 12:25 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • yes,i thought i needed some one else and i slept with my friends boyfriends cousin and i felt like sht.and never again

    Answer by tjg809 at 12:47 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Yes many many years ago.deeply regret it. It was during my first marriage.

    Answer by bjane01 at 12:48 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • If a dh would do his duty then we women wouldn't have to turn to others for anything.

    Answer by admckenzie at 1:04 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • yes, it feels horrible!!! the worst ever!! makes me want to puke!

    Answer by KaisMother at 2:10 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Before marriage yes, after marriage no.

    Answer by mom2priceboys at 2:47 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I have. Almost made my marriage fall apart. But honestly at times I still do think about the other man, and wonder if he is the right person for me..

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • By MOST people's standards, yes. But my husband knew about it and had been the one to get us together. I've had a couple, actually. One with a woman, one with a guy I met at work who became a mutual friend. My husband doesn't consider it cheating, though, and neither do I. But, as I said, most people would consider them affairs.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 7:17 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

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