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What do you do when someone is harassing you on here and won't leave you alone and you report it to CM and they don't do anything that stops the harassment? Do I really have to leave CM because one person decides to make my life a living hell on here and won't stop?!

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Nov. 13, 2010 in About CafeMom

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Answers (20)
  • 1) confront the person and ask them to stop. keep a record then present it to cafemom with proof they are harrassing you. 2) if that doesn't resolve the harrasement create a new account and if they still harrass you contact the police. NOONE should ever have to deal with harrassment.
    VGonzalez73

    Answer by VGonzalez73 at 4:23 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • If CM isn't helping you out, then go ahead, close out your account, and make a new one. Problem solved.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 4:03 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • If CM isnt helping then you really have 2 choices.

    1. Block the individual so they cant bug you anymore.
    2. Close your account and make a new one and be pickier about who have in your friends list,etc.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 4:05 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • You block them so they can't get to you.
    older

    Answer by older at 4:04 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • If I remember right you do have the ability to erase answers left in your journals and you can always just go anon for Q&A.

    Its really about how much you are willing to do to solve the problem yourself. You can either do what you can and ignore from there or you can leave and come back with a new account thats more private or not at all.

    You cant stop everyone all the time thats just one of those pains in life.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 4:09 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Omg, that is so immature. I've never had this happen, but I hope CafeMom can do something about it for you. Good luck.
    Ambie0526

    Answer by Ambie0526 at 4:03 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Keep reporting them. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. If you keep complaining, the mods will get sick of it and do something. Every time that person is rude or nasty to you, report them. Sooner or later, CM will get sick of the complaints and do something.

    If that doesn't work, make a new profile.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 4:09 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • just start a new acct. you don't even have to cancel the current one
    wheresthewayout

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 4:16 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • cant you make your journals available only to friends? and just ask your questions anon on here :)
    pookipoo

    Answer by pookipoo at 4:26 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • cant you make your journals available only to friends? and just ask your questions anon on here :)

    Yes, you can. And if you block them, they can't view your page, send you a message, or comment on your public journals, either.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 4:36 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

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