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If your Married or in a long term realtionship do you ever think about your past loves (old boyfriends)?

Have you ever what they are doing now? Or what if?


Asked by Jenaiko01 at 7:53 PM on Nov. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I think about my most recent ex and wonder what would have been if he hadn't left me. We still talk, but not often. I thought he was perfect for me, but he didn't feel the same way. Now I'm married to someone who just makes me feel somewhat safe. We don't have half the passion and fun and whatnot that my ex and I had.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 9:37 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I'm still friends with most of mine, so it's hard not to think about them.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 7:54 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I don't ever think "what if" because that just leads to problems, but sometimes something will happen to remind me of one of them and I will wonder where they are now.

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 8:01 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • No.

    I've been married 25 years and that is something I have never really done/experienced.

    I never really "loved" anyone before my husband. I had "lovers" but none that I actually loved.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 8:37 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I'm still friends with two of them, going to be the Best Ma'am for one's wedding next year. One I couldn't give a crap about, the others I wish nothing but the best, they were good guys so I hope they are happy, but I don't need to know what they're doing.

    Answer by TwoBrownDogs at 7:59 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Yeah, I'm friends with most of my ex's as well. And as to what if's I don't really wonder about the what if's as some of them are still in my life.

    Answer by isabellalecour at 8:01 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I'm still friends with one of them, though we don't talk very often. Other then that I occassionally wonder what they're up to. Even though I HATE most of them, I still wonder what their life is like. I don't wonder about US and I don't wonder "What if" .. I just wonder what their life has gotten up to since we last spoke.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 8:01 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • sometimes I do but I dont really care

    Answer by mandynjohnsmom at 8:02 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • Not really 3 of mine passed away :( The others were not seriuos..

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:09 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • I sometimes wonder what they are doing with their life, most of them were pretty good guys. I don't have bad feelings towards any of them, not anymore. Time and distance changes all those things I think. I am friends w/a couple thru facebook, one I know has been in and out of jail (I saw that coming a mile away) the rest I am not sure, it would be nice to know that they are fine. But I wouldn't have much to say.

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 8:23 PM on Nov. 13, 2010