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What is one little thing your Hubs/SO/Person could do better or differently?

Just throw his food trash away instead of leaving it on the counter.

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Asked by Airamana at 11:58 PM on Nov. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • Close his closet doors. It would make my day.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 11:59 PM on Nov. 13, 2010

  • For starters (and I am in a venting mood), he can stop playing on his f!@king computer so much. On weekends, he is glued to his F!cking laptop playing a stupid game and ignoring everyone.
    He could also wash his whiskers out of the sink and turn his clothes the right way before they go in the washer.
    That's a start..

    Answer by Izsarejman at 12:00 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • communicate and act like he's atleast listening to me.

    Answer by Lynnsae at 12:02 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • Confront his issues and communicate better.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:04 AM on Nov. 14, 2010


    Answer by sony9 at 12:05 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • Not leave his nasty work boots on my carpet! He's a plumber, he deals with people's overflowing sewer lines, ect. and thinks it's fine to wear his nasty boots on the carpet and leave them there! Our 2 year old plays on that floor! Thank God for my steam cleaner!

    Answer by Christy_517 at 12:06 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • I'd be happy if he picked up after himself! lol

    Answer by 2murphyboys at 12:07 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • Sony9 - Yes, it can be more than one.

    I was thinking just a little game, but sounds like we might need to vent, so GO AHEAD, ladies. Let us have it!!!

    Comment by Airamana (original poster) at 12:12 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • i had to really think about this...eventhough there are all sorts of things i nag him about, i dont really know that i would want to change anything...he just wouldnt be him if he did change the little things that annoy me and i would never ask that he be anything other than himself....if i HAD to pick something, i guess it would be wonderful if, when we have a disagreement, he would discuss things like an adult instead of getting defensive and shutting down and then getting over it in 5 min. itms really hard to talk things through and really work things out and come to an agreement with him sometimes. he just cant communicate well when he's mad. we never stay mad for long, and he always apologises if he was out of line...but nothing usually gets accomplished kwim?

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 12:14 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

  • LoriaAnn - yep kwym. Took us a few years to work through that. But we did.

    Comment by Airamana (original poster) at 12:20 AM on Nov. 14, 2010

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