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What do you do when you are with a person that you love but absolutely can't stand?

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Asked by dirtyswifey10 at 1:28 AM on Nov. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • work on yourself first

    Answer by davevysmom at 1:30 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • I haven't a clue, I've never been through that. Bumping for you..and good luck.

    Answer by -AJ at 1:30 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • Leave. Unless you're married and it's not abusive. Then I would consider it a chance to work on patience, compassion and acceptance.

    Answer by BluDog at 2:02 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • I'm kinda in that boat myself, I love him a lot but anymore he's.grumpy, doesnt provide for his family,etc.... I just keep hoping he will change! Believe me, I bite my tounge a lot and it's really getting old! Best of luck to ya.

    Answer by anichols1 at 6:02 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • anichols1 I used to bite my tongue, but one day i was talking to his mama about things and she told me that keeping it in wasn't good and that I should tell him how I feel even if I have to be hard on him because that is the only way that he is going to see that I am serious about what I say. I actually took her advice and he has gotten so tired o hearing my mouth hat he has been getting up extra early in the morning trying to do the things that he needs to do.

    Comment by dirtyswifey10 (original poster) at 1:54 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • Davevysmom it has nothing to do with me it has to do with the things he does (the constant drinking & wanting to party alot on the weekends, etc). I just don't like that and he does it so much that I literally can't stand him at times.

    Comment by dirtyswifey10 (original poster) at 1:56 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • dirtyswifey10 I- have spoke my mind many times but it hasn't worked yet. Sounds like your lucks better than mine,that or my hubby is just more pig headed!! Sometimes I think it's" Mid Life crisis", I don't know but nothing works! We used to be so close but sadley it's changing. Just curious, whats your hubbies flaws?

    Answer by anichols1 at 4:27 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

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