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Do you think it's fair to say all men cheat, or all men look at porn?

To me it seems like that's an awful sad expectation. I don't believe that to be true either.

 
Musicmom80

Asked by Musicmom80 at 11:43 AM on Nov. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I dislike generalizations, as I've found most of them to be untrue, and in the end, generalizing about any group of people tends to be hurtful for the people involved.
    geminilove

    Answer by geminilove at 12:29 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • No,because it isn't true. My hubby doesn't do either
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:44 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • Nope.. is it fair to say all women are dirtly little sluts?
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:46 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • No, because there are some men out there that wouldn't do that, I know some.
    countrygirl06

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 11:47 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • I don't think it's fair, but what percentage of women can honestly say their so/dh has never/will never cheat or watch porn? I can look at my husband whom I completely trust and say I hope he never cheats on me, but I can't say "he will never".
    sunshine58103

    Answer by sunshine58103 at 11:47 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • nope, my hubbby doesnt do either =) there are such things as good guys in this world.
    JaydnsMom22

    Answer by JaydnsMom22 at 11:47 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • I do believe that I can honestly say that he will never cheat. We have an amazing relationship. He would never want to do anything to jepardize that.
    stressedmomma13

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 11:51 AM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • I don't think it's ever fair to use words like ALL or EVERY... There are always exceptions to every rule, and really with a "rule" like this not only is it not fair but it's just plain untrue. While I don't see anything wrong with porn or extra marital sex, I know quite a few MEN who do, so to say ALL men do these things would just be inappropriate.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 12:00 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • No, it's not "fair" mostly because it's not correct: not ALL men cheat or look at porn. My husband doesn't. He's no saint, and we have our share of issues, but in our 15+ years together, infidelity and pornography have not been a problem.
    vicesix

    Answer by vicesix at 1:01 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

  • oh please depressedmom. Seriously. Just because many of the men that you may have met in your life would love to sleep around doesn't mean ALL will just jump at the chance. there are men who actually value their partner, respect the union (whether legal or otherwise), some men DO believe that sex & love CAN be intertwined. There are men who can remain faithful. I have no doubt whatsoever in my mind that my DF would not cheat on me. He has enough respect for me o not put my health at risk or more importantly, risk our relationship. I have found a man that is worthy of my heart, my body & my life.
    stressedmomma13

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 7:19 PM on Nov. 15, 2010

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