I lost my first pregnancy, my second (my son) was 6 weeks premature, my third (my daughter) was healthy but they took her by c-section 3 weeks early b/c of how they did my first c-section. Both of them were small in utero and are still small for their age...but me and my DH are small too. My family says I shouldn't have any more, but we want one more. Should I take my family's advice or risk wanting to beat myself up if/when I have another bed rest pregnancy?
Your family is probably worried about you after seeing all that you've went though with your first pregnancies. They're not being nosey or "buttinski's" after-all you were and still are their "baby" (if it's your mom and dad that's worried). It most likely will be a "high risk pregnancy" considering all that you've gone through. If it is something that would potentially put a baby's health at risk I wouldn't even consider trying to conceive it. Because I feel that it would be selfish of me to want to bring a baby into this world for my pleasure of having it knowing full well that it might have health problems. If it's just a matter of me getting bed rest and nothing else...like me losing my life...I would try to conceive.
It's something to think about.
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