Was he like this when you were first together??? There are some men who have low sex drives, but I think they're in the minority. If this is something new, then I'd want to know what's going on. If it's not, did this bother you before? Sexual compatibility is very important in marriage. It's fine if both people have a low sex drive, or if both people want it all the time, what's important is that you are both on the same wave length, otherwise it can become a major issue. Sex and money, the biggest marriage problems. So he's right, it's not important.....as long as it's not important to either of you. If it's important to either one of you, then he's wrong.
at 1:52 AM on Nov. 16, 2010