By opposite-ended, do you mean the question about who everybody likes? Because that's different--it's okay to name members specifically when complimenting them, but not for calling them out in a BAD way. Big difference.
Here's a snippet from the Community Guidelines:
"If you must "vent" your feelings about another CafeMom member, do it without identifying her. Don't use her screen name or any other information that is likely to make her recognizable to other members"
I'm not trying to bust your chops, I'm just pointing out why this post won't go anywhere, and if it does, CM will delete it.
at 8:34 AM on Nov. 16, 2010