For one son..very little other than helping him plan the rehearsal dinner. His 'bride' thought it was her job to plan it all and we just pay..um NO. I finally told her mother to impress well on her daughter that it is my SONS day too. She wouldn't be getting married without him. Her Mother called her a bridezilla..LOL. We have been great friends ever since...oh, and my son divorced her cheating butt..and her father disowned her.
My youngest son was engaged to a woman who had no money, nor did her family. Intead of having them go to the JP, we planned and gave them a small wedding. It turned out very nicely.
at 6:54 PM on Nov. 16, 2010