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2 Bumps

If your new boyfriend...

..buttered your bread and handed it to you at a restaurant when you asked him to pass the bread...and poured you more tea when he noticed you were out..would you think he was sweet or possibly controlling?


Asked by Anonymous at 6:46 PM on Nov. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • i would like polite and sweet

    if he put butter on when he knew you are lactose un tolerate- then no
    if he poured you more tea when you were drinking water because you hate tea- then no
    if he told you that one sugar packet is enough for you when you like to put three in- then controlling
    if he told you that you should not have a 2nd bread because bread is fattening and you do not need anymore- then controlling

    if he opens the door for you-sweet and polite
    if he opens the door, you walk through, but is he is not behide you because he ran into an old girlfriend and stops to say hi- rude, controlling and dump him

    i guess i do not see control, are you sensing a control issue, or are you not used to polite sweet men who know how to treat a lady

    you DO deserve to be treated sweetly

    Answer by fiatpax at 6:51 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • i would say trying to win you over. dont expect it to last long

    Answer by momslikeme366 at 6:56 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • sweet

    Answer by shay1130 at 6:47 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • Controlling... Thanks but I can feed myself!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:48 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • I think he was being nice.

    Answer by louise2 at 6:54 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • id say sweet

    Answer by meagan678 at 7:13 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • Sweet. My hubby does this stuff all the time. Last night I said "a glass of milk sounds good right now." And next thing I knew he was handing me a glass of milk.

    Answer by bjane01 at 7:17 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • Sweet. I would only consider it controlling if you told him not to and he still did.

    Answer by MooNFaeRie30 at 7:31 PM on Nov. 16, 2010

  • I would find it sweet.

    Answer by earthsangel2006 at 11:50 PM on Nov. 16, 2010