when preganant someone asked me this
and someone even rude enough to say this to me when I was holding my new baby
yes, she was not planned by me, quite a surprise at 42!
but this is NOT what i said to these rude people
i said "She was God's plan"... it shut them up good, funny how bringing God into something like this shuts rude people right up
(do not know where to post, but God is a good place for this one- i think)
Answer by Syphon at 11:21 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by Shanna84 at 9:57 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by riotgrrl at 10:07 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Now that I have read riotgrrl answer I see how it could be rude. My son has a babysitter and she had her first child at 45. I asked her if she got preg naturally. She said no and was fine with the question. So maybe I never really thought how it could be offensive. I guess it could be. People have ask me being a single mother if my son was planned and I say no and I dont feel weird about it because he wasn't. Doen't mean he less special just means I didnt know that I was having a baby and was surprised to find out. I see how it could be rude.
Answer by Jenaiko01 at 10:14 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by anime_mom619 at 10:57 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by okmanders at 10:15 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by mymestey at 10:16 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
Answer by ashisamom at 10:18 AM on Nov. 17, 2010
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