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i getting married for the thrid time

i am getting married for the thrid time and i was wondering what i could do defferently that i didn't do in the fist two marriages. They will be no children in this marriage. So i was wondering if any one can give me some advice on how to make this one work until the end.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:47 AM on Jul. 5, 2008 in Relationships

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  • It's great of you to be wanting to improve your future by not wanting to make the same mistakes. Try thinking about the issues that you had in those marriages. What was the reason they didn't work. Are their any phyiclogical habits (low self esteam, unreal expectations, not being whole as an indivual, ect.) that you might have that has played a part in the down fall of those relationships? work on those. beware of negitive issue that your past sposes might of had that maybe you are drawn to. work on yourself as much as you can. Good luck!
    newmomanda

    Answer by newmomanda at 4:09 AM on Jul. 5, 2008

  • newmomanda is right. you need to apply the things you've learned in the past, on both sides, not only what you didn't like. COMMUNICATION is the only way.
    brimarie8

    Answer by brimarie8 at 12:05 PM on Jul. 5, 2008

  • Communication is the source of every good marraige. Talk continuously to each other about everything. Don't keep any secrets. They always come back to haunt you sooner or later.
    mikki1972

    Answer by mikki1972 at 4:08 PM on Jul. 5, 2008

  • i can't help you with that wihtout knowign what went wrong in teh first two. but i'd say respect, communication, unwarevering loyalty, honesty. this is what my aunt told me and next year will be 40 years for them. 40 happy still head over heels in lvoe years.
    princezzmommie

    Answer by princezzmommie at 5:52 PM on Jul. 5, 2008

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