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will it get better?

Hey guys okay so for the past few months my fiance has been the sole supporter of our house hold while iv been attending a community college to get my ged so i could help provide better for our family instead of making 6 bucks an hour...Well weve gotten into some dissagreements about money being tight and not being able to do the things we want to due to the money situation and bills having to be paid...wil lthe fighting and dissagreements stop after i get the ged and find a better job?....< taking the test on the 4,5,& 6 of nov.>

 
justinsmommie09

Asked by justinsmommie09 at 10:01 PM on Nov. 3, 2008 in Relationships

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  • yes sweet heart it will get better ..you are doing your best and that's really all you can do...the arguements are due to stress...maybe yall should plan a date and take some time to relax with one another and work out the kinks in the problem..i think that yall need to get on the same page and things should get better
    amiyamom

    Answer by amiyamom at 11:27 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • Only time will tell. We can't answer this for you. Congrats on working towards your goal!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • it should get better sweetie! don't lose faith!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:04 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • I'd think so. It's awesome that you realize having your GED (and maybe even future ed in college) will provide you with a higher payrate. It's difficult when you're in school, and can't help much. But the income you earn after you have your GED should help out! ;) Good luck with your exams!
    mrseum

    Answer by mrseum at 10:24 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • It could---would he read a book with you on money--try The Total Money Make Over by Dave Ramsey. It could be life changing for you both and certainly help your relationship:-) It could help you both stay our of debt before you get in too far!!!!    And way to go on the GED!!!!

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:42 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • he has to understand thats what a man does he supports the family when he has to
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:38 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • Of course! Don't fight. Tension is just high right now. I know it's tough but hang in there and stay positive. Focus on getting your GED. You are on the right track. Things can only go UP from here.
    hopelessnance

    Answer by hopelessnance at 11:56 PM on Nov. 3, 2008

  • if you can find a job. heck i have been looking since july. times are tough and we argue about money but oh hell one day it won't be so bad.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 12:02 AM on Nov. 4, 2008

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