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time to move forward or move on

my boyfriend and i have been together for all most 5 years now and we both cheated been off and on. buti we have a tow year old together and i want to get married and move into gether or just call it quits but i dont want him to feel like i;m forcing him cuz hell run way when he feels like he not in countrol any words of adice

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:49 PM on Nov. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • the best you could do is to talk to him and see what he wants. maybe he wants the same thing that you do and just doesnt know how to talk to you about it. hope it all works out for the best, good luck
    meagan678

    Answer by meagan678 at 5:53 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • if you can see yourself walking away from this man now, I wouldn't recommend marrying him. When you get married it should be to someone that you can't possibly picture your life without.
    AshleyBishop06

    Answer by AshleyBishop06 at 5:56 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • I agree with the girl above. If you can see yourself walking away from him then why marry him? you are basically telling yourself you can live without him and walk away from him at any moment, a marriage will NOT fix the problems you have and if you cant talk to him because he runs away when he feels cornered then you have to remember thats not going to change once your married he will still be the same exact person it will just cost you a couple grand to split up once your married.
    RhiannaSanchez

    Answer by RhiannaSanchez at 10:13 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • DTMFA.
    BluDog

    Answer by BluDog at 7:42 PM on Nov. 18, 2010

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