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Has your hubby s/o turned in to a crank pot?

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mmmegan38

Asked by mmmegan38 at 6:26 PM on Nov. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • YES. He was laid off the day we returned from our honeymoon, and he's been dealing with depression ever since. He has had 2 jobs since then, and was laid off from both. He's been staying home with our son while I go to school, which has been okay, but he has that "provider" mentality, so I know it's killing him.
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 6:30 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • Yeah.. He has his grumpy bunny moments. lol

    This is what works for us. We talk about what is making him grumpy.

    If it's something that we/he has any control over, we address the issue and come up with solution. Grumpy bunny usually disappears within moments of finding the solution.

    If it is something we have no control over, and there is nothing we can do about it. He let's it go. No point in being a grump over something you have no control over.

    If just talking it out doesn't work. He meditates for awhile. After meditation, he either has his own solution and is feeling better. Or he has an idea on what to discuss so that we come up with a solution together. And the grumpy bunny disappears once again.. lol

    ((This is how we handle it when either of us are being grumpy))
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:31 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • He has his days when I jokingly tell him it his time of the month. Alot of it has been from stress at work alot of layoffs and he has more work on his plate.
    karing4elmas

    Answer by karing4elmas at 7:10 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • He has his moments! Just like anyone else I guess!
    jem102675

    Answer by jem102675 at 9:47 PM on Nov. 17, 2010

  • when a man gets laid off it does something to them it turns on this switch and makes them crazy. men need to work so they will feel like a real man providing for the family and coming home tired i know what you guys mean ....
    jimenez123415

    Answer by jimenez123415 at 2:11 AM on Nov. 18, 2010

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