My husband always reassures me he'd never cheat or stray, that i'm the only one he wants, and yet because of every other male example in my life I don't believe him. Also feel like he's too good to be true, and i'm undiserving, which makes me jealous of every girl that interacts with him, because i know i got a good thing, and i'm scared they too will see it, and go after him. I have reacurring dreams of him with other girls and in the dream i go balistic! I'm so fearful of losing him, this is the best relationship i've ever been in so why am i self sabotaging it? how can i even start to work through such deep rooted feelings?
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Answer by Monkeygrrl at 1:07 AM on Nov. 4, 2008
My best friends husband always accused her of cheating. We went to Bingo with my 80 year old gram . He accused my gram of being a madame. He followed her to GED classes and peaked in the windows. His first wife had cheated on him. One day he brought a friend home for dinner. Her h got drunk and passed out. The friend and she did it in their car. She told me she just got so sick of being accused she did it. They had been married for 5 years and had 2 kids. Then she told him. They divorced.
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