My husband and i are having problems for the last 18 months. He blames my way to protect my kids and the loss of his job all on me.I love him more than i could ever describe.Now he wants to move to find a job leaving me behind with the kids.I asked if was our end he said i don't know?! I asked if he wanna a divorce? he said "dont jump to conclusions?! I asked if he still wanna be my husband? he said yes/i am not sure I need time and space....everyone iis saying he left me.My own kids are laughing at my face...am I dumb? did he leave me? i have called and texted him 4 times now with no answer. he did mentioned his phone was broken...i cry day and night. i have no friends,no family other them him and my 3 kids. please help. i am so sad,i cant eat,sleep shower...just unstopeble pain and cryingAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:41 AM on Nov. 18, 2010 in Relationships
I'm sorry. I think you need to find something for yourself, if you start to feel happier it will be easier to work on things with your DH. Try to find something for yourself and give your DH the space he is asking for. The less you text him the more likely he will be to reach out to you.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:48 AM on Nov. 18, 2010
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Answer by musicmom08 at 7:31 AM on Nov. 18, 2010
Loosing a job for a man can be very degrading; he is confused and doesn't know his place in the marriage. You seem very strong and are able to handle a lot at this moment but you do need him because you do love him. Don't know maybe it is time to file for separationpapers if that's what he is searching for. Do ask him that. Separation doesn't always mean divorce might need some counseling to see if the marriage can be worked out. Again, I'm sorry for what you are going through.
Answer by musicmom08 at 7:45 AM on Nov. 18, 2010
I just want to say you are not pitiful. You are just scared at the moment. I've always say that what doesn't breaks you makes you strong. At the moment your kids need for you to be strong so be that strong mother for them.
I believe in the end of all of this you'll be just fine. =]
Answer by musicmom08 at 7:51 AM on Nov. 18, 2010
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